In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain superfluous. That is where people go in deep into; that is called the worldly life (sansaar).

Dada Bhagwan
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"One is to remain superfluous" means that you shouldn't be giving or getting attention to someone else. You shouldn't be trying to impress anybody. That's why husbands and wives shouldn't compete with each other in terms of their looks, intellect, social status, etc. They should just focus on the relationship they have with their spouse.

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